How Your World Changes When You Love Yourself by Adele Brimâge

Guest Post by Adele Brimâge

Let me start by asking you some questions?

When was the last time you indulged yourself and did something that you enjoyed that felt good, for no other reason than it made you feel happy?

When was the last time that you told yourself how wonderful, beautiful, smart and amazing you are? Have you ever told yourself, if not why not?

I know I hear you say who does that sort of thing, and you are right who does…not many people, but why not? What can possibly be wrong with appreciating and loving yourself, the way you find it really easy to love others?

Did you know that there are many benefits to loving yourself, and learning to appreciate yourself, not many people do this, but it has a massive impact on every area of your life?

If that has got your attention then lean in and let me tell you more.

You see, loving yourself, having respect for yourself, and knowing your value all sit at the very core of many things such as:

• How much confidence, assertiveness, and decisiveness you have
• Your well-being
• The amount of money you have
• Your ability to create and enjoy the kind of life that you want and desire

Having self-love can and does affect the decisions you make and how quickly you make them. How you see yourself and look after yourself.

Everything you do or don’t have in your life like, love, money, great partner, good friends, amazing career and the list goes on, is either there or not because of the internal value that you put on yourself.

Did you know that by loving yourself you increase your value from the inside? This happens because you start to embrace your true self, so a by-product of loving yourself and building value internally, also builds external value, abundance and wealth.

It’s a fact that we only accept what we think we deserve.

You see, if you have any negative feelings or beliefs about yourself that you think on a regular basis, some of these may even be hidden from you, they are mirrored back to you in your life, and can be identified by the things you attract into your life. So take a look around you, what is your current life saying to you?

Until you start to love yourself there can be an inner battle going on inside you that divides your energy and will sabotage your best efforts, preventing you from moving forward in any area of your life, and will continue to bring back situations and events that you may want to avoid.

If any of this resonates with you ask yourself:

• What’s the downside to loving myself?
• What the upside to loving myself?

Take your time with this; the greatest thing you will ever invest in, in your life is you.

For many people learning how to love themselves is the hardest thing they have ever done, but it’s so worth it, your life will one day thank you for starting this journey.

ABOUT THIS GUEST:  Adele is a Transformational Life and Business Coach and Inspirational Speaker, who’s mission to help and impact passionate women and a few visionary men to find and fall in love with the dynamic confident ambitious women/men they truly are, to remove any barriers holding them back, learn how to become unapologetic about who they are have more confidence and unshakable self-belief in all areas of their life. She challenges their thinking and helps them to acquire a mind-set that sets them up for success and propels them forward to easily achieve all they desire and increase their wealth and abundance in whichever area of their life they want to see real sustainable change. Adele helps her clients to stand out, make a bigger impact, and move to a higher level in their life, career or business. www.adelebrimage.com

Listen to Adele’s Get Out of Your Own Damn Way podcast interview HERE.