Creativity to Overcome Fear, Handle Stress & Manage Transitions: An Interview with Krylyn Peters

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The Creativity and Wellness Connection: An Interview with Krylyn Peters

Do you consider yourself to be creative? Do you think creativity is reserved for the lucky few who have certain skills and talents? It’s amazing how often people are quick to declare themselves as not creative simply because they don’t paint or play an instrument or do something else that is artistic. Creativity is something we all possess, whether we realize it or not. While we may not show creativity in artistic expression, it’s in there. And creativity is an essential ingredient to leading a healthy, happy, balanced life. Come listen as Kelly Galea interviews me and I share:

• Why creativity is so important to good emotional and mental health
• What really gets in the way of being creative
• How to tap into your innate creativity (even if you think you don’t have a creative bone in your body)

For more tips on using creativity to work through stress, overwhelm, anxiety, and fear, join me for the annual Creativity and Wellness Summit, a FREE online event where I interview experts – psychotherapists, coaches, authors, and spiritual healers – who will share their best tips to help you move through the barriers that keep you stuck personally and professionally. Register at http://www.CreativityAndWellnessSummit.com

Get Up, Get Up Right Now…

I’m curious.. what was the first thing you thought of when you got out of bed today?

Just a few years ago I used to wake up and lay there wondering what the heck I was getting out of bed for, paralyzed by an illusion of confusion, a serious lack of clarity about what I wanted to do with my life and how I would ever get all of this potent creativity out of my body and into the world.

The long and short of it is this: I used to dread. waking. up.

Can you relate? 

Have you ever had a period of your life where you didn’t want to get out of bed? In fact, you may have wanted to stay there all day?

I know what that feels like!

And now, I know what it feels like to wake up and have the very first thought come to my mind be ‘Thank you, Thank you, Thank you’ as I wrap my arms around my body and say to myself, ‘I love you Laura.. I love you sooo much! I am whole complete and perfect, I am healthy wealthy and wise.’

What a turn around from just a few years ago!

The shift began when I started to step out of victim mode and into my power.

After reading Charles Haanel’s The Master Key six months after starting my first business, I was struck by his message to begin noticing what I was focusing on. Was I focusing on what I want or what I don’t want?

Guess what?! As open minded, aware and conscious as I thought I was, I realized that more than 50% of the time I was thinking about what I don’t want, what wasn’t working and feeling the gap between where I was and where I wanted to be as some type of cruel joke that the ‘Universe’ was playing on me.

I decided it was time for a major perspective shift!

Instead of wondering HOW I was going to do it, I began to focus more on the gifts that I dreamed of sharing with the world. 

Instead of focusing on the gap, I started focusing on the next step as it became very clear to me that BABY STEPS BECOME QUANTUM LEAPS!

I want to be very clear with you about something… this journey has not been easy. It has taken a concerted effort on my part to become absolutely diligent about noticing where my focus was, what was I thinking about and then shifting my thoughts in the moment.

I BECAME THE WITNESS to my internal dialogue in new and powerful ways.. 

I made a commitment to myself to listen to my heart, and that subtle voice inside that may not be very loud, but keeps showing up over and over again (in my heart, in my head, on the computer, out on the street, in a magazine or book.. you know the one!)

Here’s the thing.. for most human beings our lives, businesses, legacies are developed over time by choosing one thing, then the next, then the next.

I used to want it to just HAPPEN ALREADY! I mean… Haven’t I DONE ENOUGH WORK YET? Haven’t I SUFFERED and TOILED enough already?! When will it be MY TIME to SHINE?!  And when will I get that much-needed BREAK to leapfrog to the next level?!

I also realized that I was showing up as a victim once I started to ask myself (or be asked by my twin sister, my coach, and other empowered people I surround myself with), ‘Where’s your power when you try to blame someone else for where you haven’t gotten to yet, what you haven’t achieved, what you haven’t done?’

Hmmmm…. great question!

Here’s what I know to be true: If it all happened at once it might not work out so well, because we need to build new muscles in order to hold the gigantic space that Universe, God/Goddess, Creation is calling us to hold.

Everyone has their own journey.. ENJOY the journey and forgive yourself when you start to compare yourself to others and feel crappy about your own evolution/transformation!

We all have our unique set of gifts and challenges..

As all of this was marinating and percolating within me, I decided to put together a small group of ladies to collaborate, write songs and sing together. Through this Divine guidance, I channelled a song I now call Get Up.

The chorus poured out of me: “Get up get up right now, get out of your way. The world is calling you, to leave your greatest legacy!”

This has since become a powerful mantra for me and many others to remind us to get up and get out of our way so we can do our greatest work in the world. Remember, the Universe is in fact conspiring to shower you with blessings. Every challenge is an opportunity your SOUL has created for you to shine most brightly in this moment and always.

I find that mantras are powerful vibration and energy-boosters that I now integrate regularly into my experience. Tapping into your creativity daily makes a huge positive impact on your attitude and keeps you connected with your essence, so you can be maximally effective in all areas of your life. Click here to access more of the mantras and inspiration I share regularly!!

I’m thrilled to be one of the featured guests on Krylyn’s Creativity and Wellness Summit and I’ll be sharing about the power of mantras to uplift, energize and empower your life. Look forward to connecting with you on my interview Tuesday, June 10, 2014, 6:00PM PST / 9:00PM EST. You can access “Get Up” as my bonus gift to you just for signing up for the Summit at http://www.CreativityAndWellnessSummit.com.

Many blessings along your journey and keep getting UP (.. out of bed.. and out of your own way!!)

3 Tips to Surviving Under Pressure

Have you ever been in the middle of something big? A huge transformation, project, or undertaking? And in the midst of it, so many challenges arise that you think you’re about to explode or end up in the corner in fetal position?

I’ve certainly been there. In fact I’m there RIGHT NOW.

What I’ve noticed is that every challenge gives me an opportunity. A window of smaller transformation within the bigger transformation. Let me explain…

We’ve all got issues. Some of us deal with insecurities based on how we were raised, or situations we’ve experienced, or that inner critical voice that’s never satisfied. And those issues surface in one form or another every time something doesn’t go as expected. We may question ourselves, our confidence, our worth, our ability, our strength, our capacity to manage all the unexpected turmoils that come our way.

For me, the big struggle is with being visible and not wanting to disappoint others. I was taught to be in the shadows and not make waves. And that certainly helped me survive a not so ideal childhood. But for someone called to a greater purpose of helping others find their voice and not let their past define their future, it isn’t an effective strategy. In fact, it’s pretty much the opposite of an effective strategy.

I’ve learned more effective strategies over the years. But sometimes, old patterns resurface, especially in times of great change. Recently, I’ve noticed that as I’m stepping into my greatness in a bigger way, the challenges I face can bring up that survival instinct, which beckons me to shrink, hide, defend myself, make excuses, and listen to others dictate what I should or shouldn’t do. Sound familiar?

So what I find most helpful during these times is to remind myself:

• What my why is.
• How I want to show up in the world.
• What works (and doesn’t work) to calm and center myself during difficult times.

Here’s some tips on how you can put these strategies in place:

1. Write down WHY you are doing what you’re doing. It’s easy to get caught up in WHAT we are doing when working toward a goal or moving through a change or transition. But the WHAT are the details and that’s where we can get overwhelmed and stuck. Focusing on and remind ourselves of the WHY can help us keep our “eyes on the prize” and connected to the motivation of why we are doing our what. Post your written WHY where you can see it often. (Mine is next to my computer).
2. Think about how you want to BE. If you’re drawing a blank, it might be easier to think of how you DON’T want to be. When I’m going through a challenge, I don’t want to be stressed, irritable, impatient, unorganized, or too much in my head (with thoughts spinning out of control). What I do want to be is calm, grateful, forgiving, open, and centered.
3. Identify and SCHEDULE things you can DO to create how you want to be. For example, if I want to be calm, I need to follow it with action. Being calm in the midst of chaos isn’t a default for me. I’ve had to work at it, and I know what makes things better (or worse) when life seems to be crashing down around me. I know that breathing, using my lavender spray, resting, taking breaks, drinking water, getting fresh air, etc. help me tremendously. They may not solve the issue at hand, but they allow me to be more centered and able to handle what’s going on. Write down what works for you and keep it close. If you’re like me, you tend to forget what works when life gets harry. Make it easy on yourself by having a list handy when you know you might need it.

Remember that life has its ups and downs. You have no control over what happens around you. But you do have control over how you handle it. Often the biggest lessons are not in the actual event or situation we’re faced with, but in how we can get through it with our sanity intact.

Photo by: Tom Martin

Get Up, Get Up Right Now…

Laura Aiisha Haykel

I’m curious.. what was the first thing you thought of when you got out of bed today?

Just a few years ago I used to wake up and lay there wondering what the heck I was getting out of bed for, paralyzed by an illusion of confusion, a serious lack of clarity about what I wanted to do with my life and how I would ever get all of this potent creativity out of my body and into the world.

The long and short of it is this: I used to dread. waking. up.

Can you relate?

Have you ever had a period of your life where you didn’t want to get out of bed? In fact, you may have wanted to stay there all day?

I know what that feels like!

And now, I know what it feels like to wake up and have the very first thought come to my mind be ‘Thank you, Thank you, Thank you’ as I wrap my arms around my body and say to myself, ‘I love you Laura.. I love you sooo much! I am whole complete and perfect, I am healthy wealthy and wise.’

What a turn around from just a few years ago!

The shift began when I started to step out of victim mode and into my power.

After reading Charles Haanel’s The Master Key six months after starting my first business, I was struck by his message to begin noticing what I was focusing on. Was I focusing on what I want or what I don’t want?

Guess what?! As open minded, aware and conscious as I thought I was, I realized that more than 50% of the time I was thinking about what I don’t want, what wasn’t working and feeling the gap between where I was and where I wanted to be as some type of cruel joke that the ‘Universe’ was playing on me.

I decided it was time for a major perspective shift!

Instead of wondering HOW I was going to do it, I began to focus more on the gifts that I dreamed of sharing with the world.

Instead of focusing on the gap, I started focusing on the next step as it became very clear to me that BABY STEPS BECOME QUANTUM LEAPS!

I want to be very clear with you about something… this journey has not been easy. It has taken a concerted effort on my part to become absolutely diligent about noticing where my focus was, what was I thinking about and then shifting my thoughts in the moment.

I BECAME THE WITNESS to my internal dialogue in new and powerful ways..

I made a commitment to myself to listen to my heart, and that subtle voice inside that may not be very loud, but keeps showing up over and over again (in my heart, in my head, on the computer, out on the street, in a magazine or book.. you know the one!)

Here’s the thing.. for most human beings our lives, businesses, legacies are developed over time by choosing one thing, then the next, then the next.

I used to want it to just HAPPEN ALREADY! I mean… Haven’t I DONE ENOUGH WORK YET? Haven’t I SUFFERED and TOILED enough already?! When will it be MY TIME to SHINE?! And when will I get that much-needed BREAK to leapfrog to the next level?!

I also realized that I was showing up as a victim once I started to ask myself (or be asked by my twin sistar, my coach, and other empowered people I surround myself with), ‘Where’s your power when you try to blame someone else for where you haven’t gotten to yet, what you haven’t achieved, what you haven’t done?’

Hmmmm…. great question!

Here’s what I know to be true: If it all happened at once it might not work out so well, because we need to build new muscles in order to hold the gigantic space that Universe, God/Goddess, Creation is calling us to hold.

Everyone has their own journey.. ENJOY the journey and forgive yourself when you start to compare yourself to others and feel crappy about your own evolution/transformation!

We all have our unique set of gifts and challenges..

As all of this was marinating and percolating within me, I decided to put together a small group of ladies to collaborate, write songs and sing together. Through this Divine guidance, I channelled a song I now call Get Up.

The chorus poured out of me: “Get up get up right now, get out of your way. The world is calling you, to leave your greatest legacy!”

This has since become a powerful mantra for me and many others to remind us to get up and get out of our way so we can do our greatest work in the world. Remember, the Universe is in fact conspiring to shower you with blessings. Every challenge is an opportunity your SOUL has created for you to shine most brightly in this moment and always.

I find that mantras are powerful vibration and energy-boosters that I now integrate regularly into my experience. Tapping into your creativity daily makes a huge positive impact on your attitude and keeps you connected with your essence, so you can be maximally effective in all areas of your life.
Click here to access more of the mantras and inspiration I share regularly!! bit.ly/1nbIuag

I’m thrilled to be one of the featured guests on Krylyn’s Creativity and Wellness Summit and I’ll be sharing about the power of mantras to uplift, energize and empower you’re life.

Many blessings along your journey and keep getting UP (.. out of bed.. and out of your own way!!)

You can access “Get Up” as my bonus gift to you just for signing up for the Summit at http://www.CreativityAndWellnessSummit.com.

Are you looking to upgrade? I’ll be offering a three-month “Get Up” coaching program to those looking to upgrade their subscription to this summit.

Look forward to connecting with you on my interview Tuesday, June 10, 2014, 6:00PM PST / 9:00PM EST.

Embracing the Obstacles: Are You Passing the Test?

Have you ever noticed that the closer you get to something you want, the more obstacles start showing up? Obstacles that distract you, that bring up old ways of thinking or behaving, that leave you wondering if you’re on the right path?

We are all on a journey. We have different destinations and different detours, but we are all going somewhere. Some of us stop for a while and enjoy the scenery, either afraid to move forward, or maybe too tired to take anything else in. Some of us trudge ahead, excited by what’s next and ready to take on any challenges that come our way. But here we all are along for the ride.

There are as many ways of being on that journey as there are journeys.

But the one thing I know for sure is the importance of our WHY. Why are we on this journey? What are we hoping is at the end of it? And how will our lives be different as a result? Answer these questions and they will keep you going, despite the most challenging of obstacles.

When we don’t have a grasp of these vital pieces of information, it’s easy to get side-tracked on the journey. If we don’t know why we want what’s at the end, it’s easy to give up at the first sign of resistance. But if we are firm in our resolve, deeply knowing that what waits for us is truly aligned with who we are and what we stand for and will benefit not only us but others in our path, we can see the obstacles for what they truly are…tests!

We tell the universe what we want, setting our intention. Then the universe conspires to get us there. But there are also a lot of unconscious thoughts and old patterns lurking under the surface, designed to help you truly know who you are and what you want. They present themselves as obstacles, testing your resolve and continuing to challenge how important this journey really is for you.

“Do you REALLY want this” the universe asks. “Let’s see how badly you really want it.” Enter in the obstacles, the tests, the distractions, the “I can’t-s,” the melt downs, and breakdowns. How you deal with these are actually much more telling than any other part of the journey. They speak to your character, your intention, and your why.

Know that the obstacles are indicators that you are getting close. So if you give up now, you’ll miss the miracle. What journey are you struggling with right now? What obstacles are coming up for you and how are you handling them? Learn to embrace all parts of the journey and you’re going to get there!

Photo by William Warby